Thursday, June 2, 2011

My Sweet Daughter

"It's time to go to the hospital so Monkey can listen to Elijah's vagina," said Shayna as we headed out the door Wednesday afternoon.  I love what 2-yr-olds put together.  1) We were going to the hospital and I had attached Monkey (Shayna's stuffed monkey and favorite toy) to the backpack as a comfort item.  2) We listen to Elijah's heart beat regularly as a precaution in case he has a tachycardia episode.  Shayna likes to help and listen as well.  3) We had to take Shayna to our local hospital at home for some unrinary tract tests involving a catheter and radioactive dye.  She remembers well the catheter and is still talking about "the lady looked at my vagina." (It was not a pleasant experience for the poor child.)

Nahum and Shayna finally got home just after 5pm after a very long, uneventful day at the hospital.  The ultrasound of her liver looked good and the liver numbers had gone down.  We'll repeat labs on Monday in Virginia and just enjoy the rest of our visit until then.

I was wrong about the spots on Shayna.  They've doubled since yesterday but I'm posting a little video of her in the bath post hospital to show you that she's still in good spirits (It's loading right now but if you go to my youtube channel in 15min it'll be there.  www.youtube.com/mrsarava. Just sort my videos by date to find it.).  She was quite a trouper today and didn't give her Aba any trouble, just the medical professionals.  She knew what was happening from the moment she woke up with, "remember we went to the hospital?  We have to go back to the hospital and do more labs."   She doesn't seem to let it affect the rest of her life as she enjoyed our evening visitors and their little dog then jumping around with me on the deck/patio like it was a normal, fun, toddler day.

Here some pictures of Shayna and Nahum from the beach trip with Yael and Kobi.

Enjoying Socialism

Shayna got a fever Tuesday morning (that made us cancel our trip to the north) followed by a sparse, full-body rash that afternoon.  The fever went down a little by Wednesday but the rash was spreading so after nap time we went to see a doctor.

Schneider Childrens Hopsital is 25 minutes from us, is a quality facility, and was our best bet for getting to see a doctor who can evaluate the situation properly.  Israel has a lovely national health care system so the emergency room is not crowded with the uninsured, is a nice place for actual emergencies, and is staffed by quality professionals (unlike the crazy ignorance we've encountered in the states).  (Shayna had the best IV insertion I've ever seen.)  The rash and fever we now know are probably (cultures pending) from a common virus in the enterovirus family.  It probably made it's presence know because Shayna is immunosuppressed but since it could be masking other (bacterial) infections we're doing a round of iv antibiotics.  Nahum is currently back at the hospital this morning (we're 7hrs ahead of EST) for a 2nd round of labs and the 2nd round of antibiotics.  (I'm at home with Elijah.)

We went AMA last night (and are of course very proud of it).  They wanted to admit her for observation in the off chance there was some sort of bacterial infection AND the antibiotics administered weren't doing anything.  This means pour sleep for Shayna with the night-time prodding and no sleep for Nahum because of something that is highly improbable.  With the hospital so close and sleep so essential for recovery (and good descision making), we took her home.  What they were worried about in the night didn't happen.  Shayna only had a slight fever this morning and the rash is starting to go down.

With the virus resolving, we'll probably still be Pittsburgh bound when we get home since Shayna's liver numbers are worse than they were the week we left for Israel.  We're supposed to get into Roanoke Sunday morning.

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Beautiful Israel

Vacation is a lot of work with two small kids but oh so worth it when you see their eyes light up with a new experience.  Okay, Shayna does that mainly.  (Elijah lights up when people talk to him but that's pare for his age group.) 

We've been enjoying lots of Saba and Savta time at Lea and Dov's complex.  There's a playground across the street which Dov takes her to and we play in their swimming pool ever other visit.  Shayna walks into their aparment and says one of two things.  "Oh, there's Saba Dov," or "Where's Saba Dov?"  She reaches up to hold his finger when they walk down the cooridor and he melts each time. 

We've been to the beach twice and have two more trips planned.  The first time her eyes just about popped out of her head when she spotted the Mediteranean water stretching off to the horizon.  In her accessable memory it was the first time she'd seen the sea (we went sailing last summer so she saw and enjoyed it then but that's more a memory in pictures).  She loved the waves washing over her feet and the feel of her body when I held her in the water letting the waves float her up and down.  Nahum and Shayna built sandcastles until it got cold enough that she was shivering as she dug.  At which point she cried as Nahum took her away from the beach to go home.  Discovering the world with your 2-year-old is such a beautiful, simple thing.  Elijah alowed me to play a little with Shayna by taking a beach nap between two towel, other than that it's not the greatest spot for an infant.  This afternoon we'll go meet some friends of Nahum's and their 3 kids at another beach.  With more arms to hold Elijah, I hope I can swim a bit.

Beach visit 1.
Burrying her foot and building "sand castles" with Aba.

Can anyone guess what this is?

Beach visit 2.

Elijah was mildy interested but reallly looking forward to his sling nap.

We didn't pack her enough food so she got ice cream for dinner of which Elijah sampled and enjoyed.

We took a 1 1/2 hr drive to the south just outside Beer Sheva to Kibutz Hatsarim to visit Nahum's Aunt Edna (Shayna is named after Edna's mother and Elijah's middle name Yaakov is after her father), her husband Uri, and all of their family.  Shayna and Elijah were again traveling saints and Shayna continues to fall right in with whoever we're visiting.  She adored playing with the kids.  Since her Hebrew understanding is improving, she knew a little of what they were saying but she only speaks in English so they new nothing of what she was said.  Still they had a blast.  The youngest is 6 so being older they doted on Shayna and she ate it up.

Riding with Uri.  She loved that little "motorcycle."

She does that everywhere we go.  If Nahum and I are relaxed, she just follows suit and treats the new people like old friends.  Her attituded has made visiting with Nahum's brothers' families easy and fun.  She has 5 cousins there ranging in age from 10 to 17 and she adores playing with all of them.

Running with Ben.  He's played with her enthusiastically since we stepped off the plane.

As long as it's after 6am (we have an earlier riser), it's so fun to hear her door open, her little feet pad into our room on the tile floors, and she says, "it's Ima," or "it's Aba," then climbs into bed to lay between us.  She finishes with a, "wanna go to the park?"  She loves living so close to two little parks here.  The parks are more varied that the cookie cutter ones we find in most places at home and also more challenging so she loves it.  She'll also just sit on the swing with one of us pushing her for up to 1/2 an hour.

It's been a delight to watch Elijah develope here as time is measured with a vacation start and end date in place.  He has become so much more observant of and fascinated by the world around him.  He loves being on his belly and lifting his head to look around.  Even his vocabulary of baby noises has exploded and I'm starting to catch onto what some of the noises mean.  His most obvious is a little squawky yell that says, "i'm awake. come get me."  Then he just lays there and waits for someone to get him.  I've never seen such a patient baby and he's been like that since the day we brought him home.  If he's not 20lbs yet he will be by the time we get home on his 4-month birthday.  Luckily, he's also very strong and the increasing head control makes it easier to carry our little "beefcake" around.  He continues to shows no interest in rolling but loves to stand and sit on our laps while he tries to control his heavy head long enough to make eye contact and grin.  He can scoot from one end of his crib to the other so there's no more leaving him on elevated surfaces unattended anymore.  He's still easily overwelmed by toys (the flashier the freakier) but delights in watching people and all things outside (trees swaying in the breaze, flags flapping).

We both find so much joy in our children that every little thing they do makes us smile, even when it shouldn't.  (We also have a sweetly mischevious 2-yr-old.)

Shabat dinner.

Our wonderful tiny bathtub we use as an indoor kiddie pool.

Lag Ba'Omer.  Some celebration/holiday where everyone collects wood and makes a bonfire.